Have you ever paid for the company of a woman? Or do you need to “entice” ladies to join you on a date by promising to pay for it?
Or do you find yourself putting down your work when a woman asks for something? Or how about this: Do you mind if women treat you badly? Or, more importantly, the most serious of all.
Have you ever considered harming or killing yourself because you've had such bad luck with women?
If you replied “yes” to any of those questions, then you are in serious need of help.
And since you're reading this article right now, you've discovered that.
Make no mistake: Desperation is one of the biggest attraction killers in the dating game.

It's a lot worse than being unattractive or broke. And desperation is difficult to overcome, especially if you've been in it for a long time. Consider it this way...
What if you could gain women's trust, likeness, and attraction without having to flirt with them?
give them things, or do favors for them? This article will assist you in achieving that goal.
Learn how to stop being desperate around women. The “IR Protocol”
What exactly is it? The IR Protocol is a unique way of thinking and meeting women.And if you use it, there is no way you will be turned down.
You'll be meeting more ladies, making more friends, and going on more dates instead...
while spending LESS time, money, and effort than you would ordinarily.
while spending LESS time, money, and effort than you would ordinarily.
That is exactly what the IR Protocol will do for you. Does this seem appealing to you?
So, let me tell you all you need to know about the IR Protocol.
Derek Rake, a dating coach, created this mindset and strategy. He also serves as my mentor.
Derek is a dating coach in San Diego who has coached over 17,000 people from all over the world.
And everything he teaches is based on one thing: the IRAE Model. What exactly is it?
The IRAE Model is the "Framework" through which all relationships pass.
And "IRAE" is nothing more than an abbreviation for the framework's four stages, namely:
The only goal you have is to get things to the next stage. Continue in this manner until you reach the last Stage.
- There's the Intrigue Stage, in which a woman is intrigued by you.
- The second stage is the Rapport Stage, in which she regards you as a friend.
- The Attraction Stage is the third stage, in which she is romantically drawn to you.
- Finally, there's the Emotional Enslavement Stage, in which she's fully dependent on you
The only goal you have is to get things to the next stage. Continue in this manner until you reach the last Stage.
The IR Protocol is the next step. As you may expect, "IR" stands for the IRAE Model's initial two stages: intrigue and rapport.
As a result, the goal is straightforward: simply create new female friends. That is all there is to it. You can't be rejected when that's your goal.
Your perspective is different than that of a man who wants women to like him or fall in love with him.
Now you see a beautiful woman and say to yourself, "Hmm, whether she's as intriguing as she is beautiful?"
Let's see what happens.” So you approach her and strike up a conversation with her. That's fantastic if she's interesting.
If she isn't, express gratitude for her time and go on. Because she wouldn't have been worth your time anyhow, you've very much spared yourself a lot of stress.
See how the IR Protocol shatters your hopelessness? To begin with, it alleviates your neediness.
You're no longer looking for a result; instead, you want to have a wonderful time while making new acquaintances.
Second, it empowers you to take control of your life. so that you can quit giving a woman your attention if she attempts to push you about.
You spend more time with those who like and respect you as a result. You are the only one who has authority over you. Isn't it pretty good?
How do you go about making new female friends?
Here's how it works: First and first, when approaching a woman, don't just say a regular "hello"Instead, say: Instead, ask if this seat is available.or Hello, you appear to be a talented artist. What's your name, by the way? They'll be put on the defensive as a result of this.
Remember, you're trying to pique their interest by making them intrigued.
So you ask instead: Hello, I know I shouldn't be asking this, but...Then you wait for her to respond with a "Yes?"
or "Mhm?"Then you go on to ask the rest of your question: “...but you appear to be an artist.”
“Can you tell me your name?”Waiting for her to answer in the middle of your first phrase is the difference.
That small response transforms her from a defensive to an interested person. That's all you'll need to progress from the Intrigue to the Rapport Stage.
That is the first step in eliminating women's desperation. The following is the second step.
It's time to focus on getting good at the next thing once you've gotten acclimated to acquiring new female pals.
To advance from the Rapport Stage to the Attraction Stage, do the following. Derek would show you one method if you asked him how to do it:
Fractionation
Fractionation is the process of dividing anything into smaller pieces. What exactly is it? Fractionation is a conversation skill that may be learned by any man. Despite this, it has the capacity to make a lady feel whatever you want her to feel.
Fractionation allows you to turn the tables FOREVER. As it should be, the power will be in YOUR hands. So how does it work? You’re about to find out.
Then you should alternate themes that make her sad, happy, sad, happy, sad, sad, happy, sad, sad, sad...
She should get increasingly happy as the chat progresses. Do you want her to be enthralled when she's with you?
Then switch her between themes that bore her, then thrill her, then bore her, then thrill her again.
She'll get further enthralled. Fractionation operates in this way. The true difficulty now is to make her FALL IN LOVE with you.
You'll be bouncing her between platonic and romantic issues, as you might expect. As time passes, the idea is to make the dialogue more romantic and lovely an example
You might begin with a neutral topic, such as your occupation.
Then you go on to a romantic issue, such as your ideal partner's characteristics.
Then you return to a more neutral topic, such as hobbies. Then you go on to a romantic subject. For example, nice "hobby-related" recollections shared with your ex.
- You can, for example, make her joyful.
- You can also make her sad by manipulating her emotions.
- You have the ability to arouse her.
- However, you can also make her fearful.
- yes, fractionation can make her madly in love with you as well.
Fractionation allows you to turn the tables FOREVER. As it should be, the power will be in YOUR hands. So how does it work? You’re about to find out.
Here’s how Fractionation works.
You steer the conversation to different themes while you converse with a woman. Fractionation is the only way to bounce her between two opposing feelings.Consider the following example:
Do you want her to be content when she's with you?Then you should alternate themes that make her sad, happy, sad, happy, sad, sad, happy, sad, sad, sad...
She should get increasingly happy as the chat progresses. Do you want her to be enthralled when she's with you?
Then switch her between themes that bore her, then thrill her, then bore her, then thrill her again.
She'll get further enthralled. Fractionation operates in this way. The true difficulty now is to make her FALL IN LOVE with you.
You'll be bouncing her between platonic and romantic issues, as you might expect. As time passes, the idea is to make the dialogue more romantic and lovely an example
You might begin with a neutral topic, such as your occupation.
Then you go on to a romantic issue, such as your ideal partner's characteristics.
Then you return to a more neutral topic, such as hobbies. Then you go on to a romantic subject. For example, nice "hobby-related" recollections shared with your ex.
Are you getting the picture? She'll begin to associate the sensation of romance with you over time.
And, of course, this will result in sentiments of attraction. And the more Fractionate her, the more she sinks deeper into her "trance."
All of this will continue until she admits her affections for you. Alternatively, if you propose that you become her boyfriend, she will gladly accept.
Do you want to see how it's done? You don't flirt with her at any point during the procedure.
You don't give her presents. You don't make any attempt to make her feel special. Instead, you simply become friends with her and engage inappropriate conversation.
It's the only way to quit being desperate with women while also attracting them to you.
And, of course, this will result in sentiments of attraction. And the more Fractionate her, the more she sinks deeper into her "trance."
All of this will continue until she admits her affections for you. Alternatively, if you propose that you become her boyfriend, she will gladly accept.
Do you want to see how it's done? You don't flirt with her at any point during the procedure.
You don't give her presents. You don't make any attempt to make her feel special. Instead, you simply become friends with her and engage inappropriate conversation.
It's the only way to quit being desperate with women while also attracting them to you.